When commenting on his marriage Will Smith said;
“her happiness is not my responsibility. She should be happy and I should be happy individually. Then we come together and share our happiness. Giving someone a responsibility to make you happy when you can’t do it for yourself is selfish” let that sink in.”
I let that sink in.
Granted, I am not in a marriage never have been, so I didn’t associate that comment in a relationship context.
I related to it in a ‘ONENESS’ concept.
Meaning’ there are so many more variables that can add to you giving one’s happiness power away.
I am currently in the middle of a ripple from a car accident over 3 years ago. I am waiting to go get another test on my knee after my doctor informed me a fracture is not healing.
Needless to say, receiving that informed has given weight to my shoulders.
That is why this message sang to me today.
It’s been 3 weeks since I was told about the test.
All parties involved have agreed to the test, yet…the paperwork (for the past 3 weeks) has been off.
I have been so anxious about the results to this test.
I have been giving something that hasn’t happen yet power.
This morning I woke up and decided to ‘let it go’.
I have been giving ‘fear filled’ attention on a result hasn’t happened.
The time has come to focus on what makes me happy in this moment.
This wobble is leading me to understand my happiness.
I was my happiness away to a future circumstance.
(Be present in NOW)
Now, I could be doing something that makes me happy.
Yesterday, I woke up and decided to rest all day because it made me happy.
Today, I woke up and wrote this because it makes me happy.
Tomorrow, I will wake up, smile and decide to do what makes me happy.
I will be sad sometimes.
I will be weird sometimes.
Regardless, it’s my decision.
Just like every decision is YOURS.
Just like YOUR HAPPINESS IS YOURS!
Thank you for letting me share.
Be kind. Be well. Smile!!!